Avoiding Children – Test (Version for a Man)

The purpose of the proposed test is to bring to light destructive programs and beliefs that have led to the present state. The test is a typical psychological assessment. In a quiet moment, take a deep breath and write down the FIRST answer that comes to mind after reading each question. Do not evaluate the logic of your answers while writing them down. That will be done later. The information obtained will be helpful in further creations.

Children would limit my life through ………….. ,…………..

I am afraid of having children because …………..

Children would take away my freedom consisting of ………….., because ……….

Children would make it more difficult for me to achieve my plans through …………..

I was afraid of being responsible for a child because …………..

I was afraid of becoming a father because …………..

I was afraid that a child would expect ………….. from me, because ……….

I was afraid that I would not be able to raise a child successfully because …………..

I was afraid of losing my peace because of children through ………….. and …………..

I was afraid of losing money because of children through …………..

I was afraid of losing my relationship with my wife after the birth of a child through …………..

I was afraid that children would take away my wife’s attention through …………..

What I was truly lacking in relation to children was ………….., because ……….

I did not want to be like my own father because …………..

I did not want to repeat the patterns from my family home because …………..

Children were associated in my mind with ………….. and with …………..

Children’s crying aroused ………….. in me, because ……….

Children’s noise was associated in my mind with …………..

The real reason I was afraid of becoming a father was …………..

What I feared most in a child was …………..

What annoyed me most about children was …………..

I believed that children interfered with …………..

I believed that life without children gave me …………..

The real reason I avoided children was …………..

What I really wanted to keep only for myself was ………….., ……….., …………. because ……….

The truth is that I miss having children because …………..

Opublikowano: 25/06/2026
Autor: Sławomir Majda
Kateogrie: A woman and a man in mutual relations

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