Fulfillment (as a Deception) and Co-Creation with the Creator

I encourage an initial reading of the article entitled “Fulfillment and Its Aspects.” Link

The subject was not exhausted at that time and, after 10 years, returned to me in a different aspect — as a deception of the soul, or perhaps (when viewed comprehensively) of the being that we are together with the soul.

Looking at the patterns described there, we have, among others, a woman who did not have a child and because of this a sense of unfulfillment arose in her relationship with a specific child (that soul), or generally as a mother. Perhaps the child died, or perhaps the mother died. There was no mutual nurturing, shared joys, play, conversations, and all that successful motherhood brings. Certainly the child itself experienced unfulfillment and the absence of a mother and her support. It is possible that it blamed the mother for its later failures, life worries, and for the lack of guidance toward any positive path in life.

Let us assume there are women who experience unfulfillment, for example in matters such as:

motherhood, the lack of a child for any reason

lack of fulfillment in sexuality (lack of orgasm)

Let us assume there are men who experience unfulfillment, for example in matters such as:

– finances

– the lack of a wife or woman

etc.

Now let us view all similar forms of unfulfillment from the perspective of many destructive incarnations devoted to not having precisely that thing which is now lacking.

Prostitutes, and not only they, take care of their clients and sometimes of their own orgasms, but a child for them may represent a sense of professional catastrophe. Also a life disaster, because they know no other way of living. (I once read that in some country there is such an economic collapse that prostitutes can no longer support themselves through their profession and must work elsewhere as well.) Let us assume that a soul experienced three such female incarnations, unwilling to bear and raise children.

Added to this might be two more incarnations without children, for example as a witch who performed abortions for other women, perhaps out of jealousy that they had what she did not.

After such experiences, with all those intentions of not having a child, she arrives, for example, as a beloved wife at the court of some king, to whom she is either unable or unwilling to bear offspring and an heir to the throne. Yet another catastrophe for such a woman. There were times when a ruler would rid himself of a wife in favor of one more open to motherhood.

After some time, usually after painful consequences of NOT GIVING BIRTH and ABORTION, an inner pressure appears that one should give birth… that it would be good to do so…

A sense of unfulfillment arises in the soul and in the person.

Women (and female animals as well) sometimes experience phantom pregnancies. These are only rehearsals of the soul for true childbirth, yet unfulfillment remains because there are no physical results. When a genuine will appears within the soul and personality to have something, fulfillment arrives.

Many souls and people live in unfulfillment. They rush from seeking one fulfillment to another. And now let us once again look at this from the perspective of many destructive incarnations devoted to not having that very thing which is now lacking. If the soul and the human being did not soberly reject divine offers, support, and love, they would not feel unfulfilled and would always manifest contentment and happiness.

Soberly and consciously.

Many people say, “I lack education / love / happiness / children / a wife,” and strive to fill that void without considering the costs this may bring. For example, someone marries in haste, someone else falls into drug use in pursuit of knowledge in order to accelerate the absorption of information. Another person whose soul is preparing to become a living god (and has an unfulfilled need to dominate others) may easily manipulate the personality into abandoning genuine work of surrendering limitations to God, the Giver of Life.

Often the personality, together with the soul, does not ask the Creator about the cause of these problems (these deficiencies), but instead expects a solution to arise on its own or acts independently outside the Creator, which leads to disappointment and bitterness.

The search for fulfillment, the pursuit of fulfillment, may turn out to be the greatest trap for people following any form of spiritual development. For fulfillment is not the goal that will, paradoxically, allow one to experience happiness, and it can instead pull a person downward.

Someone may have visions and hear that this or that will bring fulfillment — but then one should ask who that information comes from. When is it supposed to happen, in what form, and what will be the consequences of that fulfillment (for example, possessing a particular man as a husband or earning millions).

Without asking further questions, it may turn out that these messages come from astral groups or former gurus of the soul, or that fulfillment awaits only in a future incarnation of one’s own soul, or that it is already occurring now, but within the multidimensionality of the being.

People who do not investigate and do not ask questions receive limited information and are satisfied with it, without wondering what will happen afterward when that “fulfillment” appears. Later there may only be complaints that one has been deceived by the Creator. Yet the response may be:

“But you did not ask, you did not understand, you did not investigate / you heard only what you wanted to hear,”

or

“You did not work effectively enough with your soul.”

Some people claim that they surrender themselves together with their soul to the responsibility of the Creator and thus co-create with Him. But how can one be certain what the soul is doing, and whether the guidance is not actually coming through it?

Someone says:

“I suffer, but I have surrendered to the will of the Creator. If it is His will, so be it.”

The question is whether God, the Giver of Life, desires suffering for the soul and the being, and whether the question was ever asked of Him regarding what should be done so that this suffering would not exist.

The statement:

“I suffer, but I have surrendered to the will of the Creator”

is worth examining comprehensively, for example:

– from whom did I learn this

– does the Creator truly want me to suffer asceticism, poverty, or childlessness

Often the personality is guided by the intentions of its own soul that have not been surrendered to the Creator, and thus it becomes burdened by the weight of both this incarnation and previous ones (of the soul and the being).

Many religious and cult doctrines are based on the claim that suffering and unfulfillment ennoble a person…

So why would anyone need happiness?

This statement has been spoken many times by incarnations and by souls as well.

Reader, investigate for yourself whether you are being guided by intentions of the soul that have not been processed or surrendered to the Creator, whether you are being misled by them, or whether everything is truly taking place under the responsibility of God, the Giver of Life (which is often not granted, especially when the soul intends to become a living god), in accordance with His will.

In conclusion, a request by the soul and personality for fulfillment is one thing, while a request for sobriety, clarity, and co-creation with the Creator on His terms is something entirely different.

M.S. & S.M.

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• s_majda writes:
07/08/2013 at 12:53 (Edit)

Ksawery

I felt it, I lost my temper with Beata and others because they are not making use of my work, and with other people as well. You pointed out the context — they ignore it, so why should we make an effort for them. I want something for us now.

I earned about 5 thousand now and also realized that taxes have to be paid on the whole amount. Before, there was never enough for many things. Do you know how revealing it is to actually have money?

Miracles, miracles

[12:16:06] Mirka: not miracles

you let go

of your demands toward God

[12:16:24] Ksawery: but the soul was blocking it

[12:16:25] Mirka: as if God did not know what you need

many turn to God saying that something is missing, demanding happiness and fulfillment from Him, and in moments of joy, when things go well, most of them no longer care about anything

The oppressed suddenly seek Him and dictate conditions to Him… waiting for miracles

[12:42:06] Sławomir Majda: and that concerns fulfillment and complaining that things did not turn out the way one wanted, or that God deceived them. Sometimes they claim that the Higher Self deceives the lower self.

[12:42:43] Mirka: but look how personalities demand contact with Him right now, waiting in tension, struggling with the Soul

they want to “put Souls in order” by force

and the Souls do not care

they will make their own selection

and here, you know — one wants a child, another wants women, someone else wants something completely different

and they work with the S (Soul) only because of that

or for some meaningless enlightenment

they do not want contact with Him

they want something from Him and that is why they work with Souls

[12:42:06] Sławomir Majda: Not everyone. A painter friend claimed 30 days ago that he was a soul, and now claims that a fly is a soul. Now that is true infallibility!

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• Sławomir M. writes:
22/08/2013 at 12:14 (Edit)

[9:38:52 AM] Mirka: and how are you feeling?

[9:41:11 AM] Sara: differently, I keep listening to what people say to me, a friend visited me and mentioned that I have changed a lot… but my eyes are sad

[9:41:32 AM] Sara: perhaps because I hear parts of the being…

[9:41:40 AM] Sara: how they rebel among themselves

[9:42:07 AM] Sara: and when things are not surrendered and so on, this is what happens…

[9:43:07 AM] Sara: the articles on MNW gave me something to think about… I am changing, but it is happening very slowly

[9:44:20 AM] Mirka: and what makes you the saddest?

[9:48:10 AM] Sara: you know, those were my friend’s words, maybe I no longer see it myself because I have become accustomed to the image of my own eyes… a contradiction, sadness because of lack of fulfillment, and then thoughts come: but how do you expect to become fulfilled carrying such burdens, when you do not want to surrender them

[9:48:23 AM] Sara: I feel as if I am standing there, seeing everything, and unable to do anything

[9:48:56 AM] Sara: I stepped away to come back, I am reading…

[9:49:08 AM] Sara: … for every word, thought, and intention you will be held accountable

[9:49:50 AM] Sara: I was using a massage roller… and it gave me chills… I have millions of thoughts!

[9:51:33 AM] Mirka: and fulfillment is a great myth…

[9:51:58 AM] Mirka: because it is conditioned on having money / a husband / friends

[9:52:39 AM] Mirka: one creates a lack and keeps it alive

because there are codes and patterns, for example from childhood, saying that one is not allowed to be happy

[9:52:54 AM] Sara: it is hard to disagree, dependence, fulfillment when… possession

[9:53:28 AM] Mirka: and yet there are people carrying burdens… and they are happy

[9:55:05 AM] Sara: a joyful personality 🙂

[10:01:31 AM] Mirka: attitude

[10:02:02 AM] Mirka: besides, by asking for something, one may receive exactly what one does not want

[10:02:06 AM] Mirka: in reality

[10:02:10 AM] Mirka: and then there is… a problem

[10:02:44 AM] Mirka: why do you need a husband?

[10:05:04 AM] Mirka: what is he supposed to give you?

[10:05:26 AM] Sara: if one does not know exactly what one is asking for, or as in my case, I asked for a husband… but without knowing exactly what qualities he should have… then you are right, I may receive… a great unknown

[10:05:55 AM] Sara: and does he have to give me anything? Can we not simply be happy together?

[10:06:08 AM] Mirka: and what is happiness?

[10:06:30 AM] Mirka: how will you know when you are happy?

[10:09:12 AM] Sara: better than what I went through… happiness has different colors for everyone… for me it may be a relationship with a man without enslavement, while for someone else it may be winning the lottery

[10:10:50 AM] Mirka: better than what you went through?

the question is — why can you not be happy now?

[10:12:13 AM] Mirka: you are making happiness dependent on being with a man

[10:12:55 AM] Sara: not entirely, because I can be alone

[10:13:02 AM] Sara: even now when I meet people

[10:13:22 AM] Sara: I look at personality traits that I like or dislike

[10:13:27 AM] Mirka: being alone and sad — many people live like that

[10:13:50 AM] Sara: but I do not want to compare myself with others

[10:13:55 AM] Mirka: why is there no happiness and joy now?

[10:13:57 AM] Sara: everyone has a different path

[10:14:33 AM] Sara: I am happy, but I hear the emptiness in my apartment….

[10:14:42 AM] Mirka: you are rationalizing….

[10:14:43 AM] Sara: and my friend… „you have sad eyes”

[10:15:06 AM] Sara: parts of the being are influencing me

[10:15:10 AM] Mirka: so complete happiness means there will be noise in the apartment — someone else around?

[10:15:50 AM] Mirka: because you allow their influence, you surrender to it

and people around you perceive your “happiness” and either move away or worry about you

[10:15:52 AM] Sara: and now a thought came — it is selfish to live only for oneself

[10:16:10 AM] Mirka: you see — you are avoiding selfishness

[10:16:16 AM] Mirka: interesting who convinced you of that

[10:16:26 AM] Mirka: how are you supposed to have healthy relationships, a man, children

[10:16:31 AM] Mirka: if you do not take care of yourself

[10:16:37 AM] Mirka: and do not fully experience happiness

[10:17:46 AM] Sara: a tarot reader, memories came back last week, years ago she told me… „you should think more about yourself, be a little selfish”… I still have two peacock feathers from her… while cleaning my apartment on Saturday, I looked at them… and remembered

[10:18:08 AM] Sara: *selfish

[10:19:36 AM] Mirka: there are different forms of selfishness

[10:20:21 AM] Mirka: and it is like this — if certain patterns are held within, that kind of man will appear

if expectations are poured onto him to provide happiness… he will not be received

[10:21:04 AM] Mirka: if you cannot fully experience happiness yourself, something or someone else will not provide it

[10:22:55 AM] Mirka: if a man appears, or a child appears — and happiness is still not there, then what?

responsibility will be shifted onto them or onto the Creator — because “happiness” was supposed to be there

and by demanding from someone, one can get badly hurt and become even more unhappy

[10:23:40 AM] Mirka: often in marriages people seek the love and happiness that their parents did not provide

[10:24:26 AM] Mirka: and when one subconsciously wants them to fill the emptiness, they move away even more or become draining and demand even more from you

[10:27:28 AM] Sara: that sounded like it is better to be alone ;p

[10:28:31 AM] Mirka: that is how you interpret it

[10:28:37 AM] Mirka: I mean exactly the opposite

[10:29:20 AM] Sara: I do not want to be alone

[10:29:50 AM] Mirka: if you cannot allow yourself to experience happiness and make it dependent on others…

[10:30:10 AM] Mirka: the consequences are terrible

[10:31:21 AM] Sara: hopefully my wise mind returns

[10:33:13 AM] Mirka: very often people enter relationships in order to receive what their parents did not give them…

so be careful what you are getting into

and you have influence over the Soul and parts of the being

and if you become their victim, happiness will never come

[10:34:28 AM] Sara: alright, but if someone came from such a home, and spends the entire incarnation reliving childhood and its patterns…

[10:34:55 AM] Sara: does that mean they cannot create a relationship?

[10:35:34 AM] Mirka: likewise, expectations toward a new relationship — “that it should be better than…” — mean that the old one is still being held onto

creating relationships — absolutely yes

[10:37:19 AM] Sara: so expect nothing

[10:37:32 AM] Sara: if God gives, He gives, and if not, then not

[10:38:04 AM] Mirka: God gives — according to the extent to which you are able to receive

[10:38:36 AM] Mirka: if you expect a relationship better than the old one, then themes from the “old” relationship that caused its collapse will continue to appear

[10:43:30 AM] Sara: so the very word „than…” means that even without mentioning the old relationship, it already reveals my attitude?

[10:43:39 AM] Mirka: yes

[10:44:37 AM] Mirka: analyzing your expectations, attitudes, and what you say gives knowledge about yourself and the Soul’s expectations

[10:46:31 AM] Mirka: what or whom happiness is made dependent on, what is expected from another person [for example filling the emptiness in an apartment, but what should the relationship actually look like? It could just as well be a roommate…]

[10:53:32 AM] Sara: yes, one is supposed to move in from September

[10:55:28 AM] Mirka: the more happiness and joy you and your Soul experience, the healthier your relationships will be

[10:47:29 AM] Tomek: if one wants something completely different, could it be an escape from what was before? How does one distinguish expectations from wanting something and making a decision? Perhaps when one no longer looks at or compares it with the old situation, then it becomes a decision

[10:47:52 AM] Mirka: even when one wants something different

[10:47:57 AM] Mirka: one will encounter a variation of the old

[10:48:23 AM] Tomek: it seems that one should stay where one is and change nothing, or only change oneself

[10:48:35 AM] Tomek: you know, there were many things I did not like in my previous job

[10:49:12 AM] Tomek: and they offered me a similar one, so should I accept it because I do not accept those principles, and by accepting it I will have an opportunity to change my attitude toward it

[10:49:20 AM] Mirka: by changing yourself, much information appears about your expectations

[10:49:35 AM] Tomek: when can I say no and when should I accept what I have not liked until now

[10:51:18 AM] Mirka: you will know

[10:51:28 AM] Mirka: when you ask yourself properly

[10:51:40 AM] Mirka: why do I not want it…, what does not suit me

[10:53:34 AM] Mirka: what will I have to face if I accept this job

[10:53:51 AM] Tomek: the old

[10:55:05 AM] Tomek: because I have already done it

The Soul’s Current Incarnation as the Greatest Obstacle to Development. A Conversation.

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Opublikowano: 07/06/2026
Autor: Sławomir Majda
Kateogrie: God

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